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Thursday, 19 August 2010

  • Giveaway!

    Just wanted to let my readers know about a wonderful giveaway on a friend's blog.  She is, btw, a wonderful woman who I admire greatly and is Mom to 16 kids - one still waiting to be born and 10 adopted.  My HERO!

    Visit her blog here to see what's going on....

    http://www.ourhaitianjourney.blogspot.com

     

    I'm going to try to be better about blogging my life has been crazy up and down!

    peace and love to all....

Thursday, 13 May 2010

  • Good news all around!

    Soooooo - the WONDERFUL news is that BOTH of Djenica's birth parents are safe and sound!  Our friend Enoch was able to track down Papa Joseph and he then wrote to us and sent photos of himself and Mama Selene.  Djenica is head over heels happy - as are we!  And while we won't see them this trip - perhaps next time.

    SECOND good news - just got confirmation that my precious 'squuchy-face' angel is also safe and sound!  Saintana, my foster baby, and her family are unharmed - not only that, but the foundation for their home is being completed!  You may remember that we have been sending and raising money to build her family a stable home.  It is being worked on!  We don't have all the funds yet - but piece by piece this family will have a decent living situation. 

    THIRD - oh, boy!  Saintana's parents are planning to bring her to the mission while we are there so we can see here!  AHHHHH!  I am so so so excited I'm almost peeing in my pants.  I'll see my Tana-baby!

    FOURTH - progress is being made on the little boy we have been waiting to host.  He got hospital approval in January and we've been waiting on the paperwork (ugh) every since.  Heard from his orphanage today and things are progressing!  Hurrah!

    FIFTH - not new but still GOOD NEWS!  God is good, all the time!  ALL THE TIME!!!!!

     

Friday, 07 May 2010

  • Going to Haiti

    In a few short days Eddie and I will be leaving for Haiti.  We will be working with Lori and Licia at the RHFH clinic and Rescue Center in Cazale.  This will be my 4th time in Haiti, my 2nd trip to Cazale.  This is Eddie's first trip to Haiti.  It will be eye-opening.  For both of us.

    I fear to see post-earthquake Haiti.  Pre-earthquake Haiti was enough to make me cry for days.  I am quite confident that post-earthquake Haiti will rip my heart out of my chest.  Nevertheless, it isn't about my comfort - I am going to do my tiny part to lessen the suffering there.

    I will do what I can - hold little babies, count out medicines, plant seedlings - while Eddie puts his nursing skills to work. 

    Please keep us in your prayers.

Saturday, 20 March 2010

  • "OUR OWN"

    I was already a bit snotty feeling this morning.  Sometimes I get like that.  I think it happens most when I feel powerless.  Then I read a very good friend's blog where she stated she was "over it" and listed all the crap she is 'over'.  The bald honesty with which Sarah writes is overwhelmingly real.  I had to think for a moment about her issues to be over versus mine - which pale in comparison.  I thought for a second that I had no business whining - but I know that writing is cathartic so here I go.  Sarah, I am with you 100% and love and admire you and and always amazed with what you do for and with your kids.  I know you are SO among the ranks of "SUPERMOTHERHOOD" that I am unworthy to be in your presence (fortunately, Sarah knows me well enough to know what I mean here)

    SO!  In the past few days I've been seeing a few things about Haiti - a very few - in the news.  The earthquake is 'old news' and many other things take it's place.  Good things, bad things, important things, trivial things.  I remember not long ago asking my friend Licia in Haiti what we could do for her - what should I tell people?  She said, very simply, "Tell them not to forget us".  She knew that Haiti would be replaced as headline news rapidly.  She knows that Haiti has been ignored by the international community for EVER.  She could count on the outpouring of help to trickle and die.  So I keep telling people.  Haiti is still broken.  Haiti is still, as it was before, the poorest nation in the Western Hemisphere - now it has even greater needs and even less ability to be self-sufficient.  People are still hungry.  Children are still parentless.  Families are still homeless.  People are still injured, sick, and suffering.

    Reading Licia's blog today, seeing the new kids who were admitted to the RC - these are children who are suffering the effects of malnutrition.  Not because their parents are crackheads who don't feed their kids.  Not because they have been abandoned on the streets.  But simply because there isn't enough food.  Period.  These families are doing the best they CAN - not the best they want, or the best they are willing to do.  The best they CAN.  And they cannot keep the child healthy no matter how hard they try.  Some have travelled hours or even DAYS to bring their child to RHFH.  Does that sound like a 'bad parent?'

    AND THEN - I recall reading an online story a few days ago about a Haitian child whose leg was amputated due to injury in the earthquake - and how an American doctor was in Deschapelles doing prosthetics - and how this child would likely NOT get help because he lived too far away.  A 'yanking on my heartstrings' story.  Sad.

    AND I made the mistake of reading the online comments.  REALLY?  Are you serious?  People are bitching and moaning about how the world community has done so much for Haiti - and there are kids in America who don't have their prosthetics.  REALLY???  Where?  Oh, I know there are poor people in America.  I know that a certain percentage lives below the poverty line - which is $22,000 for a family of four.  In Haiti, the average income for a family of four is around $2,000.  The AVERAGE in Haiti is TEN TIMES LESS that the POVERTY LINE in America. 

    The poorest of the poor - thats the Haitians.  Not just poor.  POOR.  Not just hungry.  STARVING.  Not just without medical insurance. Without ACCESS to medical CARE.  Without ELECTRICITY, RUNNING WATER, SANITATION.   

    You know what REALLY IRKS ME???  It's Christians - yes, those of us who profess to 'love the Lord' and 'follow God'.  It's Christians who say absolutely stupid stuff like "We should care for our own first".  WHAT?  Can you tell me what book of the Bible you found that it?  Is it First or Second STUPIDITY?  The Acts of the Ignorant?  "Charity begins at home".  Is that found in the 25th chapter of the Book of Imagination?

    Perhaps all y'all need to actually open that Book.  Read what it has to say.  Start with Luke 10.  Concentrate on verses 25 - 37.  When you've digested that, turn to Matthew 25.  I challenge you to read veses 31-45.  Tell me where it says 'charity begins at home'. 

    In fact, get out your concordance.  Log onto any online Bible.  I'll make it easy for you - www.biblegateway.com - Look up charity.  find me where the BIBLE says 'charity begins at home'.  Oh, you can't find it?  Pity.  That's because it doesn't exist. 

    WHO IS MY NEIGHBOR?  "Go and do likewise".  If you dare to take the name of Christ - if you announce to the world that you are His follower - you better be sure you don't misquote Him.  You better love your neighbor.  Yes, the little starving kid in Haiti.  He's your neighbor.  What are you gonna do about it?

    Disclaimer - I know that most of you who read my blog are the good guys.  Feel free to share this with the blackhats in your life! 

    Ah.  It feels good to get that off my chest!

     

     

Friday, 12 March 2010

  • Too long a break

    I forgot how good it feels to let it out in writing.  Since November was the last time I posted - a short catch up.  First, we were working on getting through the holidays and birthdays and all.  Then, I was working on two Medical Visa kids to host - one went to a different home and hospital, and the other is still in the works.  Then in January my brother died unexpectedly.  Since then, I've been struggling with THAT!  But life goes on and it is very much time to rise from the depths and continue along.

    We decided not to go on our planned 'big big trip'.  We had planned to take the littles in an RV for a year - see the country.  We discussed it more and more - and decided that it really wasn't the best plan, financially or realistically.  A better plan is to buy a trailer, and every month take 4 weeks off and see part of the country.  That can be done without an expensive, extensive leave-of-absence.  We will not have to be paying a huge mortgage as well as payments on an RV while travelling.  We do not have to sell our beloved home in order to do Plan B.  So, plan B it is!

    As I said to Eddie yesterday - now that we aren't travelling a long time, we can adopt another child!  He agreed.  So the issue is - do we adopt immediately a child with special needs - or from a war-torn country?  Or do we wait God knows how long for adoptions to open up again in Haiti?  There will be thousands of kids from there needing a home.  Waiting is not comfortable for me.  I want to DO not WAIT!  I'm looking at an Ethiopian girl with Hep B, a Eastern European girl with Crozon Syndrome, a little boy with HIV, an asian infant with DS.  HONESTLY!  How does one say "I'd rather have that child than that one!"  How does one say "That child deserves a family more than that one!"???  How does one choose to help a child in need NOW or WAIT for a child that is GOING to be in need?  I may only get one shot at this!

    Of course, we need to wait.  We have committed to waiting to make sure our foster baby Saintana is safe and her family is safe - if she needs a home, we are it!  We have also committed to trying to find Djenica's birth family - we have a friend looking for her Dad now - her Mom we will try to find but we don't know which town she lives in.  We know her Mom had 5 older kids - 3 of those would still be adoption age if they need a home.  So I guess we need to wait to find out if we'll be getting any of those kids before we pursue another adoption.  Perhaps we need to get our homestudy started so we can be ready! 

    Prayers for clarity, patience, etc would be appreciated.  And, no, I'm not looking to adopt an infant!  But if God puts one in my path I won't step over it!  LOL - unless we are called to adopt Saintana or that Asian infant wtih DS, I promise not to look at babies!  preschool or older.

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  • I live near Seattle with my husband, three wonderful sons, and beautiful Haitian daughter. I want to make a difference in the world. Weird, huh?

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  • elosangel
    @Btamara38 - It's great to hear from you, Tamara! Tana is doing great after her surgeries. She is a joy and a blessing! I'm still waffling - I'll likely end up NOT flying because by the time I know when she can go, the prices will be high. Plus I'm a wimp at flying. One question - if you escort
  • Btamara38
    Hi there, This is Tamara the escort that brought Tana from Miami to Seattle; she looks so healthy and happy! I was following up with Lori wondering if she had heard how Tana (Saintana) was doing and she sent me your weblink. How precious. I understand if you decide to handle taking her back yours
  • Chef_Jay
    Hey Beks!!!Jay here. All of this is so touching. We are and will be praying for you, your family and Tana. Tana is looking great and God bless you guys in all that you do. May you e an inspiration to many to share God's love in deed not just word.We love you guys and will call you soon!!!J, G &